This board is such a godsend. I don't know how other people make it through the day without a virtual advisory board like this place. I'm allowed to delve into the most minor of irritations, and the big ones, and work it all out knowing someone will call me on BS or support me when I need it, and then I can move on. The little whatever-it-was is not just forgotten, not just avoided or repressed, but worked through and healed. I've been weaning myself off it compared to the really horrible times at the beginning of my sitch where it was literally a lifeline for me, but I still find so much value here. Thanks to everyone who posts.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
