You do have to set some boundaries in regards to W talking to OM right in front of you.
I think in a calm way tell her that it is not ok to talk to OM while you are in room ,,,or whatever boundary you want to set for her interactioins with OM.
I told my H he had to break it off with OW as long as we are married and still living in same house. I think he did, but I stopped snooping so Im not 100% sure.
But this is a respect thing, my H knows he could not talk to OW in front of me, that would be a deal breaker.
If you put your foot down and your W leaves the house, are you ready for that?
We can all give advice here, but you must do what works for you.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
