Sandi, just thinking about this more - I would expect that if I say something along the lines of "W, it is disrespectful and hurtful to speak to OM in front of me the way you have been. Go elsewhere and do that - and not in my presence" she would take it as a threat and ask 'or else what?' or tell me if I don't like it, I can leave the room.

What are your thoughts? Or anyone else, for that matter. Feel free to weigh in here.

-Pluto

H: 29 W: 27
No Kids

Together: 12/04 (9 years)
Living: 02/09 (5 years)
Married: 06/13 (11 months)
ILYBNILWY: 01/14
Separate Bedrooms: 01/14
Discovered Affair: 02/14 (On-going)
W Moved Out: 06/14