Reach out or stay dark?

[Anders]

I hear you Pluto. Not being patient has been one of my biggest mistakes in the last year and a half.

On reflection, if not for a couple of key moments where if I had just kept my emotional reaction in check, and not played the 'what about me and my life' card, we well may have been on the road to piecing.

I became so focused on my own timeline, that I started to out pressure on her to make up her mind.

I just read your thread. A very painful situation. You are handling it all extremely well. Hang in there.