Thanks kml. I bought some flowers on the way home. I am going to leave some underwear in unusual places. Can’t think of anything else… I don’t have any history of infidelity, I was always a very loyal wife. I doubt that he will be asking about anything, even if I would leave very obvious evidence. I think he is very much into himself now and doesn’t care about me at all. He wants to come to collect his drums when I’m not home, so it means he doesn’t want to see me.

He is very selfish now. We have brush fires in the area and my house is somewhat close. The fires here can spread very fast, so some areas (including my) are on the alert for evacuation. My GF who owns the bar is at the vacation home place this week, and I guess she was checking out the news about the fires. So, I got a call from H (let it go to the voice mail) asking me about what is going on here. He and my GF are at the local bar, with some other people, celebrating H’s departure for work, LOL. So, in the voice mail he asks me to call him back as soon as I can, so he could figure out if he needs to drive to pick his drums tomorrow. I called him back and he asked me to let him know in the morning if there are any changes in the situation, so he could decide if he needs to drive through my city or not. There is no concern about me or my house, he is only concerned about his stupid drums.

So, I’m trying to come up with more ideas on how to plant some “evidence” of my great life. I think that he does think that I’m not going anywhere. He can stop by the house and pick up yet another thing he wants and leave other stuff for later.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state