I am embarrassed too GB. A few people obviously knew he was thinking of leaving for a while when I had no clue. I wonder how I could have been so blind for so long...but, what others think must not rule what you think about yourself. We all did the best we could with what we knew at the time. We will all be more aware as we move forward.
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15