Great post, KGirl! Thank you. I think I need to delve I to the book realm on this topic, too. Maybe some websites. I am mainly concerned for my own well being- I have a tendency to hold grudges. I hate it, and I'm actively working on it in IC. I'm getting better, though!
I'm definitely a work in progress!
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5