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Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks LiveNow #2452379 05/14/14 02:00 AM
Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 242 Michigan L LiveNow OP Member
OP LiveNow Member L Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 242 Michigan	Well, this is the closer the has come to actually doing something. He responded to my email with this: 'I will find a mediator in our area.' I was doing fairly well, for a while, but I feel like I am backtracking lately. It seems that all is lost. He has really stayed away and made himself scarce now. I think he finally has decided to actually go ahead with the D. Still has not shown up to cut the lawn - and it needs it now. A few more days and I will have to call someone to do it. I really think it is over now for good. Am I just giving up too easily? How do I keep trying when we do not communicate at all now? I am so tired. Tired of feeling bad, and not knowing how, what, when. Have been GAL'ing myself silly for a year now but feel like I am spinning my wheels because I am still in our house, have another house and piece of property that will have to be sold, etc. One year and I am still here, while he carries on with OW and her 2 young kids whose father just left the home about a year ago too. Sad. Any pick-me-ups y'all can offer? I just feel very sad and 'defeated' I guess. I tried everything I could to save this marriage and it is like I was talking to a brick wall the entire time. Time to throw in the towel and start my life over again - at 51?? Just thinking about dating kind of makes me tired. So much effort for an introvert like me...And I am just very sad that what once was so good now no longer exists... Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15

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New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/04/14 01:30 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Cadet	04/04/14 10:59 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Wonka	04/04/14 11:25 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/06/14 11:39 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/06/14 11:45 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	TL72*	04/07/14 04:15 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Wonka	04/07/14 04:18 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	owl777	04/07/14 06:20 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/07/14 10:02 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	TL72*	04/08/14 03:20 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BklynMom	04/09/14 12:41 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/09/14 12:45 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	TL72*	04/09/14 01:04 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/09/14 11:40 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	mleigh4	04/10/14 01:16 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	04/10/14 09:44 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/10/14 09:58 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	job	04/10/14 10:15 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/11/14 07:54 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/12/14 01:36 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/13/14 07:22 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/13/14 07:49 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	job	04/13/14 08:55 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	scooby	04/13/14 09:18 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/14/14 12:09 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/14/14 10:00 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/15/14 10:33 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/17/14 04:01 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/17/14 10:30 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	scooby	04/17/14 11:21 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	04/18/14 12:07 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/18/14 12:44 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/18/14 10:23 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/19/14 01:16 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	scooby	04/19/14 05:18 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/20/14 01:04 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/25/14 12:50 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	kml	04/25/14 12:59 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	praying_in_GA	04/25/14 05:36 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/08/14 04:16 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/08/14 11:49 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	job	05/09/14 11:58 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/13/14 01:17 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/14/14 02:00 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	TL72*	05/14/14 03:18 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Georgiabelle	05/14/14 03:32 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/15/14 01:55 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/15/14 01:57 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	05/15/14 02:59 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/17/14 12:13 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	daring	05/19/14 12:44 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Ggrass	05/19/14 01:01 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/20/14 02:18 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/20/14 04:11 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/20/14 08:24 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	owl777	05/20/14 08:50 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/20/14 09:20 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/23/14 12:16 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/26/14 01:51 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	06/10/14 01:21 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	07/27/14 10:47 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	beatrice	07/28/14 08:24 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Shining	07/28/14 08:17 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	07/28/14 11:53 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	beatrice	07/29/14 09:08 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	07/29/14 11:42 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Shining	07/30/14 01:16 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	07/30/14 01:24 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	07/30/14 02:33 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Shining	07/30/14 06:25 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	07/30/14 02:47 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/01/14 12:10 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	08/01/14 01:16 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/01/14 09:47 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	08/01/14 10:07 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/01/14 10:27 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	08/02/14 01:45 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/04/14 12:33 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	T-boned	08/05/14 06:19 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	08/06/14 02:00 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/07/14 01:59 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	08/08/14 02:11 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/12/14 01:23 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Matt165	08/12/14 01:48 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	beatrice	08/12/14 07:39 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/13/14 02:02 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/19/14 02:29 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	job	08/19/14 12:23 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/20/14 01:14 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	HopeTex	08/20/14 09:26 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/30/14 01:55 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Mighty	08/30/14 04:06 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Ss06	08/30/14 04:09 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Georgiabelle	08/30/14 04:29 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/30/14 11:18 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Nitty	08/31/14 05:58 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	09/03/14 12:40 AM

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