You'll get your chance to tell her these things... but don't try to force it.

Let her come to you. She will - but on her timelines, not yours. For most of us, that's not soon enough (myself included)...

-Pluto

H: 29 W: 27
No Kids

Together: 12/04 (9 years)
Living: 02/09 (5 years)
Married: 06/13 (11 months)
ILYBNILWY: 01/14
Separate Bedrooms: 01/14
Discovered Affair: 02/14 (On-going)
W Moved Out: 06/14