Dev, when the W starts spewing you have to smile, be strong, put on your spew jacket and realize that her anger comes from inside her, not because of what you do or say necessarily. She will accuse you of being passive aggressive, she will blame you for all the bad things in her life. Remember, you cannot believe a word she says and only 50% of what she does. She could be extremely conflicted in her head and that pressure causes the meanest things to spew forth. I've seen this in my WAW, especially when she has just been with the OM. She made her bed, now she has to sleep in it. Don't rescue her. Detach from the sitch. Be compassionate but don't try to fix anything. Only she can fix it. But I doubt she's come to the point where she's even thinking. Remember. put on that spew jacket and carry on regardless.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
