He saw something on his credit he was unsure of what it was, so he just had to call and make sure it was from the apartment that I had to get after BD that he co-signed on. I paid every month on time, so it's nothing bad... but he was just "curious".
He said he called yesterday for something different, but I didn't answer...so now he wanted to know about this.
I was just like "uhhh, ok..." Then it was silent. He asked me how I was, I said ok, and asked how he was he said fine and that he got knee surgery on a knee he had surgery on as a child so it was time to get it redone or something....and he will be off work for the next 5 weeks while it heals.
There was more awkward silence, so then he's says "call me tomorrow before you go to work so I an go over some stuff with you"... I said "what stuff?" ... he says "paper work/documents"... I say lets do it now I have time... he says he doesn't have the papers in front of him right now.... so I ask what exactly does he have to go over with me, is it more things I have to sign and I said I assumed the courts would just send me any further paper work directly as they ask for my mailing address.... but I clearly am not sure since I've never done this process before" he says he will ask and see about that.
I then say "so do you still need me to call you tomorrow" with a weird smile/laugh he says "no, I will just email you any information etc... "
So I assumed my questions annoyed him.
I just don't see why I should call him.... I believe I read that the H & W have to fill out the financial paper work etc... separately. So I don't know if he knows that or what...
He said since he's off the next 5 weeks he would like to get all the paper work for the D done.
It was just a awkward convo overall.....the last few convo's we had were pleasant... I think it's b/c now, I'm done I don't care to be fake and have friendly banter over things in his life I could really careless about now
Call me what you will for that...
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
