Thanks everyone for coming to my rescue. I feel much better.

I was actually thinking to set up something like that - underwear or flowers. But I thought it would be against DB rules. kml, are you serious about that? Because I would totally do that. And it would give me much releif.

GoatGal, I will stop by your thread later.

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state