Unfortunately, perhaps they were this way and we just didn't accept or see them for what they are. I know I wore rosey glasses and now don't need any. Give yourself some time and you may see that your spouse has always been this way and you just didn't see it. I am a person interested in personal growth, reading lots of self help, advice from others, etc. I assumed my spouse was the same. Never make assumptions. The more you get space and can observe from a safe distance, you may see a lot more. The constant contact is that she for whatever reason wants to be in the know. Has she always been this way? Or are you just seeing this for the first time?
