Trying to figure out a schedule for the weekend, I offered to change to something my W had wanted. I sent a message saying we could discuss it in the AM, and then carried on. Half hour later my phone was full of hateful messages about me being passive aggressive and what a jerk I am, we bring out the worst in each other, she's done, and she takes responsibility for marrying the wrong person due to pressure (as an aside, she was the one that wanted to get married when we did, but it's irrelevant now). She said many hurtful things, and I did as well
Now I feel hopeless and beyond sick that all this is occurring. Part of me knows it is par for the course, but I fear that this time we have created serious damage. Anytime my W doesn't get her way, she accuses me of being passive aggressive and being manipulative etc. Her texts to me this evening were horrid. Currently I have blocked her, however given we have three young children, that may not be the best thing to do,
I do need better boundaries that is for sure. No need to move into more of a legal divorce yet, but a mediated separation agreement may be worthwhile.
These arguments make me question myself. I would like to get some advice if I am indeed being passive aggressive. I think it's perception
I almost feel like I need to start all over again, and any progress I made is long gone. Hello frustration
