So why continue to put yourself in that situation?
That's a really good question. I don't know why I feel compelled to "ACT" when I feel I am being threatened.
Originally Posted By: labug
How did that change anything for the better other than momentarily giving you a bit of relief from your anger? That's a difficult way to live. It can be better.
In retrospect, it probably didn't change anything. Actually, it has surely made this situation harder to negotiate. I guess I don't have the tools yet, or maybe I never will, to be able to process my anger and control my actions.
Originally Posted By: labug
You have a lot to say about W not wanting to work to change the marriage and make it work maybe she's just lazy, too.
Maybe that is it. I don't know. However, I own my mistakes. I know what I did wrong in the marriage, and I accept the accountability of how it affected my life. That much I get.
