What confuses me is why some say to "keep the lines of communication open" with the WAW...others say to ignore her. That's polar opposites and it's oonfusing. My STBXW is just about moved out. I am trying to avoid her and not be here when she's here so we can go days without seeing each other. Yesterday was the last time I wanted to see her for awhile as she is officially living at her parent's house. So I feel like now I let days go by without her seeing me or talking to me. We have no kids, our divorce is a no-fault, we have no assets...so it's a simple divorce. Even though some advice here is saying to leave the lines of communication open...I am not. I am staying in total NC for as long as I can.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
