Thanks Duds.

The part that confuses me is that she was asking for a wedding ring as Mother's Day present. That was 5 days ago.

I can't wrap my mind around her planning her exit strategy for months before hand while showing me rings that she liked on her iPhone.

She was also emailing homes for sale she found on the internet as recently as 2 weeks ago that she wanted me to talk to our realtor for a showing.

She is struggling maintaining her sobriety right now so I wonder if this is her disease causing her to act impulsivley?