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[ericmsant2]

RSL

You are all over the place in a panic. Stop it! Please learn to STFU. YOU are not going to get her to change her mind - not with your words at least.

As far as STFU that's a hard one for now we still share a bed.

SO what you share a bed. You can still keep your mouth shut.

I have never been so powerless about anything that mattered so much in my life.

YOU THOUGHT you had control over a lot more of your life than you actually did. Believe it or not…you actually have less control that EVEN you think right now..but we’ll get into that later.

Albeit the damaged goods that brought all of this on and suffers NO consequences all the while treating me like I'm the one who cheated.

How DO YOU know that she does not or will NOT suffer consequences? You don’t. So stop mind reading.

RSL – right now, IMO you are so focused on YOUR W that you cannot see the role that YOU played in this. The only person you can fix right now is YOU. That will only happen when and IF you can stop looking at her and OM and start looking at YOU.