W messages me at work an hour ago just saying "I'm so sorry". Out of the blue. I can't leave well enough alone so I call to see what is going on assuming she must be apologizing for something I don't know about. She starts into all that has been talked about since PA confirmed in the last two weeks and how she felt she owed me a sincere apology. Then, I get dragged into her talking about how she doesn't want to try but wishing she did because everything would be soo much better and that she believes I can change and be better. She spends 10 minutes sniffling on the other end of the phone and I can't help but feel 'bad for her'. Why am I so stupid??
Starsky, to your point I decided yesterday that I wasn't comfortable dropping the legal papers on her without having talked about it so I talked to her. Of course it was a risk but one I decided I needed to take to feel right about it. She agreed her life was unstable and agreed to sole physical custody being with me. She also said that I was too good to her for not taking her for everything, that she would deserve it.
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10
