Bug's asking good questions. I have just figured you're so convinced you're right that it's pointless to try to help. You are kidding yourself about not being consumed with anger about OM. You might feel better now because you recently vented, but your outburst to him, to those on the outside of your head, sounded childish and impotent. CAS is giving you harsh but good feedback.
You are being given an opportunity to grow from where you are. You might like where you are and think it's great. Others here have benefitted from finding a way to let go of things they also thought were justifiable. You are so set on the fact that you're right and they're wrong, but that and a quarter will get you 25 cents and a lot of stress in your life.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
