just my 2 cents... talking doesn't do any good. they don't want to hear it. the WAP wants want they want. probably she sees you standing in her way. I am sorry that you find yourself here. You have gotten some good feedback. It takes an awful lot of patience and time.
Absolutely....
Begging, talking, pleading, involving the Pope, Bigfoot, and Family members will do nothing at this point...
The ONLY thing that you are re-enforcing, is that you want your way, right now, and what she wants, needs, and feels, is completely irrelevant to you...
It tells her that you are still the same selfish person that she is painting you to be in her head...
It is true that you are selfish ???
In her mind, it is very true...
You have to accept her version of what reality is for now...