The "to you and for her" stuff is good and is the main point of the letter I was going to give her. Focusing on the fact that I do love her ,want her to be happy and as hard as it is to accept, yes even if it doesn't include me.
I know that she has issues though and it , this projecting on me all of a sudden, isn't real. She can have her space and still won't be happy.
Wow can i mind read or what?


Me 49 stunned and lost
W 47 ,stunning and my world
S 15,better than anyone could ask for
T 29 yrs ,M 18.
B 4-3-2014 move on separately.4-18-2014- "doesn't want to be M"
5-8-14 " I'm filing for divorce"