Is it possible to despise and love someone at the same time? The cake eating and acid laced, honey covered insincerity is really getting to me. I know that our R will never be like it was before , I had hoped it could be new and strong ,but at this point I'm starting to think it isn't worth it. She is just damaged goods. Albeit the damaged goods that brought all of this on and suffers NO consequences all the while treating me like I'm the one who cheated. That's why I was thinking of asking her to leave, it was her idea.
Yes..it IS possible....
You have to find a balance first though , and not be emotional when you deal with her...
In time, you will learn that you Love the person, yet despise the actions...
Stop thinking that she is doing this TO you also...
She isn't doing anything TO you.
She is doing this FOR herself...
You say that you love her, and want her to be happy...yes ???
What if her happiness doesn't include you ???
Still want her to be happy ???
You CAN have a new relationship in the future, although nothing is a guarantee.
