Originally Posted By: Bunches
Oneday, forgive me if I don't understand but why are the requests giving such an issue? I can see if she was asking you to run around for things. It sounds like she was willing to pickup the couple things she wanted and the other was S asking if you would bring him something. Are you just trying to be NC? Forgive me if I'm missing something in your sitch history.

No Im not looking for NC. I know the above does not sound like much, but this was just one of many examples that happens during the week she has the boys. There have been several weeks where she needed to stop by 3+ times a weeks(early morning and night). Up until the last few request I've had no problem with her stopping by or dropping things by her place and feel I have been very accommodating.

I think its more of a control issue, but I'm not sure if it's WAW or me with the control issue. I personally feel she is being controlling. Maybe its her tone of voice or frustration when not Im not available at her time/day. Most of the time she is not very pleasant, and comes across as demanding. For some reason I just let it get to me.

I can tell she is still very angry with me. Probably still keeping score (as she once admitted) At times I feel like im walking on egg shells I try to be nice, and choose my word carefully to avoid conflict.

Like I've said before, it seems that no matter what I do, or how I act, WAW is frustrated with me about something.


Me: 39 W: 33
M: 9 years
T: 10 years
S7 S10
BD 10/19/13
W Filed 11/25/13
EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA)
WAW moved out 3/15/14