I am in a pretty good spot right now. This GAL thing may actually work! I have not been totally consumed thinking about H or M! Yay me! Friday night I played softball, D12 had a tourney Sat & sun, went to the movie Sat night with a friend, dinner and a few minutes on the beach with the girls Sun night and Mon afternoon lunch and a long walk on the beach with a friend!

I feel so much better emotionally not obsessing, of course this is nothing I didn't know! I still have a ways to go but one day at a time right!


Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since