And this sounds crazy, but many of these scenarios while frequently similar, are unexplainable. So you will only make yourself crazy mind-reading. It's a waste of time.
Sorry, I just wanted to add a couple of things.. I realise I shouldn't compare my situation to any others and assume I will get the same outcome. That's not realistic. When I mentioned that I saw my situation like many others, all I meant was that I saw it as being "fixable" despite the fact that we have this long distance problem, etc. I just didn't want anyone to "count me out" if that makes sense.
Originally Posted By: Georgiabelle
I know the visit is only 3 hours and listen to what he says. Let us know what transpires.
As for this, I am hoping actually to NOT talk about our R on this particular occasion. He is coming to see my new apartment and where I live, so I am hoping just to use the opportunity to show him how great my new life is, etc. Originally we were planning to live in a particular place together, but after he left I decided to go somewhere nearby, but better. It's paradise and pretty much one of the only things that makes me happy right now. Hopefully he'll see that shining through..!
