I understand why an OW situation would seem like a possibility, but I don't believe it to be true. A couple of reasons: (1) after he left me, he did not go back home for three full months - he travelled instead. (2) before we split, he lived with his mother and we spoke every night on Skype for hours, but then he was also available every night if I called randomly, or emailed randomly. (3) I've had access to many of his accounts, including his cell, for years and he has never cared if I looked.. even now, most of his passwords remain the same as far as I can tell (yes, I went through the stalker phase for a while..!) (4) I've asked, several times. There'd be no reason to lie at this point as we technically have "officially" split.'
But I appreciate the reality check, anyway. I have wondered.. but I haven't seen a single sign of anything suspicious.
Thanks again for your nice words, though. It always makes me feel better just to know someone is out there listening.
