We just turned 3 yrs this May. He was almost 46 yrs old when we got married and im 12 yrs younger. He always said his a loner and he shouldn't not have gotten married. He brought up divorce a year and half ago and moved to our extra bedroom. When he brought up the D, we had a problem sexually early in our marriage since his been diagnosed with ED. I dont know during the time when our marriage was still OK if he what he had been doing. I checked the incubation period of the virus it goes inside when the last time when were still active.
At this time, I always said to myself I need to move on. I said to him during our last conversation that I can live my life without him but having this virus is another story and I want him to be responsible for this. I dont care anymore what lifestyle he wants to have but all i want at this time is i want my health back.
I haven't communicated with his family since I felt his family contributed to our problem. Early on our problem his mom said there's no sacred in marriage anymore. I don't know why she send me card sending his empathy. Yet, my husband is aware that his family is also one of our issues.
I don't know he had a problem of being a good boy in the past but what I know he doesn't really have a long time relationship. The longest was 2 yrs but he was still on his 20s. The rest is just only months.
