Spinning away, both of us actually.....

[Whiterose]

I was so sick through mother's day....end up with a full on flu by the end of the night.

Went and saw my L today. At the end of our meeting she said that H does not seem to know what he's doing and his L is feeding off of that and may not be too bright himself. She said by this point she would have normally called opposing counsel and had a WTH type conversation with them but doesn't think it would do any good.

I need to search job posting proving that H should be making a heck of a lot more money. We're also going to have to probe that he deliberately created a situation that got him (or going to get him) fired before he quit. I said that H is a lot of things but always has been an excellent worker and has worked full time since the age of 15. He hasn't made this little money in many years (I've also pulled previous tax returns showing H's income). She said we appear to have two problems

1) he simply does not want to pay me the money and will keep going to not have to
2) he does not like the fact that the mortgage payments he made (from the time he left in April until August when he stopped paying any money) I do not want considered as spousal It was money paid toward family debt just as I paid money towards HIS visa (also considered family debt) but he would get to claim his portion as a wright off on his taxes and I get to claim it as income. That and it will lessen the length of time at the end making his payments less.

He's going to try and take me to court, by the end of may, to get a temporary order of no support as he's experiencing financial hardship She doesn't think the courts will accept it as it is an interim court order and they don't like to mess around with interim orders....but, you never know.

Still at a loss....he's making this crazy. Even my L is at a loss