Why did you feel the need to "set the record straight" with him?
What does it matter what he thinks?
What stops you from seeking counseling? Don't tell me money, either... I mowed grass to pay for mine.
I felt he needed to know that I was aware of what was being said about me and my family. I don't care what he thinks. What I did care about was him spreading rumors and lies. Granted, I know I can't stop that, and I am sure it did validate his feelings about me even more. However, I did offer him a consequence for his actions. I know it shouldn't effect me emotionally, but it does. I don't think I would ever want to be so in control of my emotions that someone acting out against my family wouldn't warrant a response from me. That was basically my mindset. Now, why am I not seeking counseling? Good question. I don't have an answer, lazy maybe?
