He called today.
I didn't answer....

Months ago I emailed him any told him and further communication should be emailed...but he continues to call.

Today was the first time I did not answer and I won't be calling back. Is that a bad thing? I have nothing to say and I don't care to hear what he has to say.

It's annoying b/c I feel like it makes me the "bad guy" b/c I didn't answer. Then I worry if he's okay? If he calling b/c he needs something or b/c something happened? I try to tell myself that it's just probably a new update on the D or something, so I don't feel bad.

But I don't think I can talk to him anymore.
Over the last few weeks I feel that some how anger has built up towards him and I don't think I will be able hold my tongue and play nice anymore.


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope