Months ago I emailed him any told him and further communication should be emailed...but he continues to call.
Today was the first time I did not answer and I won't be calling back. Is that a bad thing? I have nothing to say and I don't care to hear what he has to say.
It's annoying b/c I feel like it makes me the "bad guy" b/c I didn't answer. Then I worry if he's okay? If he calling b/c he needs something or b/c something happened? I try to tell myself that it's just probably a new update on the D or something, so I don't feel bad.
But I don't think I can talk to him anymore. Over the last few weeks I feel that some how anger has built up towards him and I don't think I will be able hold my tongue and play nice anymore.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope