Got it, and done. Thanks for the reply Job. I have apologized so many times for so much. I think it's time I stop and give him a chance to do some of that. (He did apologize for 'everything he has put me through these last several months, but not for the OW.) Meanwhile he is now pretty much AWOL - hasn't picked up his bills and has not cut the lawn. I am giving him another few days to show up and then I am hiring someone to do it. I figure he gets to just go out and do whatever he wants and I have been busting my butt trying to keep up with outside work. No more. SO tired of the craziness. Going on 1 year now since bomb drop - and 21st anniversary is 2 days after that. I truly feel sorry for him. He seems like he has not sorted anything out in his head at all. Just more replay...


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15