I hate it when he comes to the games too, because my friends don't sit with us and I feel obligated to sit next to him away from my friends, and we don't talk, and I feel like I'm doing something nice to sit with him but that I don't really want to be doing it.
Why do you feel obligated? Out of fear that others will judge you if you elect to set apart from H? Out of worry that H's nose will be bent out of shape because you elected to sit with your friends?
You can sit wherever you WANT to....not exactly running for the Miss Congeniality title. Unless you have Sandra Bullock's acting chops!!
