Well, what great advice. Thank you. Exactly the sort of help I'm looking for. I will continue on my path and see were it takes me. On a side note I noticed a few things at the weekend that may or may not be interesting. First of all my young D fractured her wrist horse riding on Saturday. That evening I dropped her off to WAW as it was my turn to have that evening to myself. Anyway, my WAW knew I was going out and has known for a good few months now that I have been getting my social life back (which is one of the complaints she had about me before ie a homebody). Anyway, lo and behold I got a phonecall at 8.45am on Sunday letting me know that my D was doing ok. Now, to the outsider that may seem natural ie to let me know all was ok. But she normally isn't like this. She'll only really telephone me if there IS a problem. I have a distinct feeling she was checking up on me (was I home or with someone) but I could be jumping the gun. Then on Sunday evening I posted on social media that I was out again for a few beers. Then on Monday morning she rang at 8.45am again. I did not answer. I texted back saying "What's up?". She immediately rang to say she was keeping D off school because of wrist. Again I could be looking into things too much but she normally would text me stuff like this. Was she checking up on me to see if I was home or elsewhere? Lastly, I decided to visit D that afternoon to see how she was as I was close to her home. I sat with WAW and D for an hour and towards the end she asked could I mind D on a Sunday evening in a few weeks instead of the usual Sat night. I said that should be fine as I was looking to go out all day Sat to a local beach resort. She asked "Who are you going with?". I said, with a smile/jokingly "none of your business" to which she replied "you always ask who I'm going out with" which I denied. Anyway, am I looking into this too much or does anyone think it is something else?
M 35 W 31 D 10 Married 3 years Together 11 Single since Nov 13 Moved out Dec 13 ILYBNILWY, 'I don't want to be a boring housewife, 'I don't fancy you any more' OM confirmed Jun 14