Thanks all. I will respond to all of these.
For me I meet friends for lunch. I taught in my daughters class. Going on a field trip with one wink
I've been out looking at houses. Working on moving forward. Did a cancer walk with my kids this weekend. Put my story in perspective;)
We have a settlement conference tomorrow. I will know more then. I guess I need to call my DB coach. I wasn't sure since I went dark if it was still worth talking to someone but I should finish out my sessions.
This made me laugh today.
I pulled up to our farm to feed the animals.
He was there working with the garage open. He immediately runs over and shuts it so I couldn't see inside. I already know what's inside- artwork, statues etc from someone who is "broke" and wants me to pay him child support. I'm sure he was not expecting me to just start laughing.
Will update more.
It saddens me to read the other threads but makes me feel good to know others are out there feeling the same. My H is deep in mid life crisis land apparently.


W-38 H-42
T-11 M-8
C-6,2,6 months
BD-Oct 1 2013
DFiled-Jan 6 2014
Went Dark - April 4, 2014