More journaling. (I really do need to remember to journal here rather than in my paper journal.) H came by last Fri at 4 to pick up his 2 dogs. He was very tired or depressed. Not sure which, but he had purchased two dog harnesses that he could not properly adjust to fit Pixie and Google (his 2 dogs), so I cheerfully volunteered to do it for him. He mentioned that his work was stressful and that he needed to go to starbucks to get coffee drink to perk up. I gave him some expensive doggie supplies (teeth cleaning treats and enzymes) as well as rag towels to wipe mud from their paws. I did indicate that I needed to start getting ready to go out as I had "plans." He never asks about where/what/with whom, so I sincerely believe H does not care. I just wanted to be the first to end our visit, and not linger.
On GAL front, went out of town to niece's college graduation on Sat., and Sunday spent Mothers day with my mom in am, at church and brunch, then Mothers day with my son and d-in-law for dinner. While at my sons apartment, H texted me that he was dropping his two dogs off at my backyard. I arrived home at 10pm to find them happily running around with my 2 dogs. Also found 2 sets of photos from our wedding photo on the concrete porch steps. No message with them. I guess he just didnt want them. Not certain if I'd have preferred that he just trashed them without letting me know, or if I'd rather that he just leave them on the steps without a note.
M 56 H 52 M 13.5 T 15 S 28 twinStep Ds 24 ILYBNILWY BD 1/5/14 OW 4/11/14 Divorce petition efiled 5/5/14 Divorce final 7/8/14
