There's a lot of talk of her and what she's doing, what about you. How are you trying?
While I agree that communication is important knowing what I'm feeling and why and how to navigate that has been the biggest challenge, learning to take a moment or 24 hrs, when emotions are high and be able to respond, not react.
That being said, it seems that you're still on the right track.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss