That's the Brie cheese, my friend! Enjoy. pat on back, pat on back, and SLAP on back
You're doing an awesome job right there, buddy!! It looks like you guys are on the right track communication-wise which is the MOST important part in re-connecting and re-building the M. I find it very interesting that your W described putting up the wall between the two of you. Yep, that's the Berlin Wall I talk about here all the time to newbies here in order to get them to understand that it is a self-protection mechanism that the WAS employ to create a distance between the partners.