soldier,

Just my $0.02, but something wasn't adding up for me on the no L front, so I went back through you sitch. You seem confident that there ins't OM, so why hasn't W filed or even seen L? Then I found this in your post from 5/6 from W: "Believe it or not, I miss you too and although I’m still working through things on my end, I haven’t given up."

Unless there is a lot of missing information on your sitch, you haven't written that W said she was done, she hasn't file, she hasn't seen L. W even wrote that she's 'working through things on my end'.

Your GALing seems to be going well. Space and patience are needed. Keep rereading that response. She has to go through it, but there is a lot of hope there. Let her. And maybe cut down the content of your email and conversations with her? Try to target 3 sentences. Quick and concise. That's all she needs.


me: 45 W:45
M 20 years
T 22 years
S14, S13, S11, D9
BD 2/28/14
D papers served 3/3/14
I moved out 3/15/14
MC start 4/2/14
I moved in 6/2/14
D suit withdrawn 6/30/14