When we were dating my H told my brother, who is a very serious person 10 years older than me, a joke whose punch line was blue balls (guffaw guffaw). I was very uncomfortable because my family doesn't talk like that. My brother made disapproving noises and didn't laugh at all. My H said later that it was because my brother and my whole family was repressed and abnormal. I was willing to believe him in spite of my own reservations. I was so stupid. I really hope that my boys don't turn out like him.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
