Guys, I need your help. Every time WAW has the kids I get multiple calls/texts from her and the kids asking for random item from the house. Some of them are legitimate, others are just down right silly to me. For example:
FRIDAY: WAW picked the boys up around 7 and hung out at the house for about 5-10mins. The boys gathered everything the needed and off they went. WAW didn't mention she needed anything.
Saturday I get Voice Message from S10 at 4:00pm asking if he could come over and grab a pair of shorts, as he didn't want to wear his school uniform short to the Rays game they were going to at 7:00. No big deal, but I know WAW has more than just uniform shorts. I was working and didn't check my VM until around 6. I texted WAW at 6 and said I just got S10 VM, but she never responded.
Sunday I get a text from WAW at 1:20am
W: Hey there, sorry to bug u so late, but just wanted to see if I could stop by and get a roll of wrapping paper outta the hall closet tomorrow late morning? Let me know when u will be around Me: Tomorrow will not work for me.
W: Anytime tomorrow? Me: No, sorry W: WHATEVER!
SUNDAY 2:30 PM
W: S7 left is lunchbox at your house and I need it for tomorrow W: U obviously don't want me coming by, so he wants u to drop it by our front porch. W: He really does not want to by tomorrow and they both need a wholesome lunch. So.....
Me: It shouldn't be there, but Ill check when I get home and touch base later.
W: Clearly u said no to anytime, so that's what Im perceiving. You would do the same. W: Had I known it would b so difficult to get things I still need and left there, I would have done my best to get tme out earlier. You always made it sound like it wouldn't b a problem. Oh well. And that [censored] for the Dog if he's left alone again all day
Me: S7 Lunch box is not here, sorry. W: ok
This is just One example of the many back and forth text/calls I receive when she has the boys. She is always in need of something, no matter how big or small.
I have no problem facilitating when I can, but my schedule does not always coincide with hers. To her this is a problem and she does not mind pointing it out to me.
How am I suppose to handle this. I always feel like im in a lose, Lose situation with her.
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14
