W said its over - Said I can't change her mind

[Duds3]

A happy mothers day to all the moms on the boards, I hope you all had a great day.

My family and I had a great time celebrating with my own mother. GAL is too fun when we all get together. Summer is approaching and I cant wait!

Had two interesting developments over the weekend. One my XW intiated a conversation with my sister on Snapchat. Previously my sister had deleted her request on two different occasions. My sister and her always had a great relationship until everything went south. It confuses me as to why she is trying to re-establish a relationship with her? And as my sister stated, "How does she think this is normal/ok?" I told my sister to handle the sitch however she deems necessary.

Second development, my XW basically told on herself to her best friend who she no longer has a relationship with. She made the comment, "I have not told anyone not to be your friend, but they have made that decision based off what you have posted online." There have been 2 photos of me and her (XW's old best friend) posted online. She has her own boyfriend, and its not me obviously, but it is clearly obvious the XW is tracking what is going on in both of our lives still. her friends are her source of information. It seems that the XW is not as attached as she portrays or leads on. And yes this is mindreading more the less but just curious developments.

I have made great strides in my levels of detachment. Hardest part is hearing stories like the ones above or going out in the community and people always asking about the sitch. Some of the stories I have been told by other people blow my mind. I am not sure the XW has told the same story twice, if at all. But I for one have for sure been made out to be the bad guy. That's not fun at all for no one, to me its not about who is right or wrong, its about a solution to a problem.

Any vets out there care to comment on the developments?

Happy Monday to all!