I just read your threads and I will say, you have tenacity. You just keep journaling with very little feedback.
I'm not sure you need alot of feedback as it seems things are moving in a positive direction.
You're impatient for her to change, but we all have that initially. You're actually in a very good position, so try to be patient.
I'm curious about the issue around friends coming to the house and you going places. You write in very general terms about your W's complaints and then drop in suggestions that you didn't like people coming to the house and you don't like to go out. Is that true and if so why? Can you change that and make it stick?
You haven't been at this very long and you both apparently backslid to bring you to this place so bandaid 180s wouldn't be a good thing.
What's up with that?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
