Long story short. Xbf states: I'm an only child. I am selfish and I don't want to share!
This statement comes from his desire to purchase a business property that stores our inventory. Its a rushed decision (finalizing this Thursday). He does not want me involved getting in the way. He wants to own it by himself & not share it with me. This in turn would guarantee an extra income when charging our business for rent.
I've always known him to be somewhat selfish, but the fact that he doesn't want me to ride along on this just bugs me. He even wanted to wipe our business account clean so that he could accommodate HIM... not me. I won't be allowing THAT. I told him that he could take his half of whats in the account & I would be taking mine. If he wants my share, I am part of the deal too.
We have yet to finish our first business agreement. So, ultimately he can really do what he wants. He just hates the fact that he has to clear things with me. This bugs him.... but is respecting our first agreement, even though its not written in stone, yet.
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Saturday night: My gf and I went to a sports bar for snacks & drinks.. hoping to dance. A couple of guys were sitting beside us and began to chat with us. Nice guys, friendly and interested. They bought us drinks. We decided to leave this bar together & went to another (hoping to dance). The guy interested in me was pretty "touchy"/affectionate, but in a friendly kind of way. He kept telling me how gorgeous I was. He was preparing himself for marriage again and near the end of the evening was asking for my phone number. I didn't give it out. I thanked him for the chat & drinks. He was younger... only 39!!
Gf and I decided we need to do this again & put more thought into where we can go.. and dance.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
