Upwards - Needing support, tough times ahead

[Upwards]

Well the meeting went well, we communicated well & are both happy about the things we have put in place. I remained non emotional & focused, just shows how detached I am now as I couldn't have done that a few weeks back!

He looked different... he seemed like the weight of the world has been lifted from his shoulders and he seemed free somehow, not sure I can explain it any better than that?! He said this weekend he's had a "lighbulb moment" and he feels different but he cant explain why - he said again that it feels like a fog has lifted and he's just been born again.

He thanked me for everything I've done for him, he said that by me being strong & taking care of the kids that's the best support I can give him - he said me remaining NC has forced him to stand on his own two feet and he knows that everything I'm doing is for the best for us all & he's really thankful for it - I said that I was sad that I could no longer support him and he said "everything your doing right now is supporting me, you just dont realise it".

I think he's ended things with OW as he said that he's spent some time on his own and realised that he CAN be on his own & he is able to do it by himself without having to lean on someone - I didn't question, I just validated and told him that I'm glad he's feeling better about things & that I have every faith in him that he'll do this.

Overall it was positive, I think its going to be difficult at times keeping personal & business separate but we're going to have to try our best.