LT, sounds like you are continuing to handle the situation well and are in a tough position.

IMO you cannot go wrong by taking care of yourself, your daughters and maintaining some compassion for your W's struggles.

Stay strong!

Me-48,W-51
M-22,T-24
S- 18,16,9
Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date
Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch
Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only
Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork