labug, are you out there? I want to ask about your sons and how this stuff impacted them?

Any men out there who had parents d when they were in their late teens/early 20's?

I know the boys and h have to figure it out. H just does not spend much time with them and it breaks my heart for them.

s 20 seems unhappy, lost... I can't be his dad

M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13