Mr CAS is right, you have done really well. I am glad your W & her lawyer had some sort of awakening.

I totally understand you on the selection skills...and trusting. It will be hard but it's a choice that you will make again one day when you're ready.

me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope