Ooh yeah overnight rule, ok.

I think i feel best understood by the observation that this is about me feeling self esteem by not repressing my feelings and my values in the face of h's strong personality. It's about me and not about whether h will change or not. It's about showing my kids that my values matter to me.

But by the time i've given this more thought and a little more water under the bridge, i may not bother. There will always be a next time.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.