Well you need to stop focussing so much on him and controlling his life, you do things to protect yourself but you dont have to do things to control him, there is no point on you calling the apartments, unless of course you want him to grow resentment towards you, if you dont want him in the house its as simple as telling him to leave, whatever he does with that its his decission and you cant and should not control that outcome. If he wants to move he will, if you force him to move by following his steps and calling his lies, he may turn around and say he is not moving anywhere because its also his house and then this might turn nastier. Stop controlling and treating him like a child, you are hurt so you are gonna be better by GAL and dbing than forcing things to avoid your pain.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
